The first and major one was when I lost my first-born daughter, who was born prematurely and then passed on after an emotional roller coaster ride for 6 months in NNICU.
The day I lost my angel, I died BUT I woke up again. It felt like my shell was shattered and my soul was exposed. My husband and I were left BROKE, BROKEN, and BURDENED with emotions we couldn’t deal with. I grieved and still grieve, BUT I do the work every day. I show up and honor my feelings, fears, and emotions.
I knew that experience was a deep awakening for me and in one of those difficult days, I made a promise to myself that I will take on challenges head-on and I will thrive to live life to the fullest, while I follow my dreams and passions.
But I was scared to go through the new journey because I was already dealing with challenging motherhood and I was feeling overwhelmed about having to deal with entrepreneurship. I searched for guidance, leads, and support, but I couldn’t find anything that was well suited for me at the time.
I then picked myself up, made some changes, and used my pain to fuel my passion and purpose. I took my knowledge and skills of being an improvement strategist, my love for personal mastery, and acquired further skills in personal development such as NLP, Life, and LOA techniques and practices and I implemented them in my life.
I immediately started to notice the positive improvements in my spiritual, emotional, and financial life.
My tragic time exposed to me that I didn’t have
- Time freedom
- Financial freedom and choice
- And a clear goal and strategy of how I wanted my life to be like
My experience ignited a whole new side of me, aside I didn’t even know existed.
But it wasn’t enough for me to find my happy place in the world. I created Default 2 Design Academy to help women who feel the same way I did. My strategies contain the exact steps I followed to make it to the other side and love life all over again.